As a softball coach and mother of two, I cannot believe how many parents and coaches—those who are supposed to be role models for children—engage in bad sportsmanship.
And not just verbally.
Each year, the National Association of Sports Officials receives more than 100 reports of bad sportsmanship involving physical violence. Umpires are getting knocked unconscious, coaches are getting black eyes, and fathers are serving jail time as a result of their behavior.
As a parent, I cannot help but ask—what happened to having our kids join sports for the sake of having fun, making friends, getting exercise, and discovering their passions? When did winning become the primary concern?
After finishing my first two books in the Project Play series, I didn’t hesitate to write a third that addresses this serious issue. I want to remind parents that when they throw tantrums during their kids’ sporting events, it not only makes them a bad role model, it negatively affects their children.
It’s important for us to let children lead their own lives. If there is anything time and experience have taught us, it is that life can be unfair. The next time an umpire makes a questionable call, instead of slapping the bleachers or storming out into the field, use it as a golden opportunity to teach your child how to deal with life’s inequalities.
This way, whether during their work or personal life, your child will be better equipped to handle the moments when things just don’t work out the way they expected.
Remember, baseball is America’s favorite pastime. And it isn’t because of bad sportsmanship.
Marlene
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